Maybe you are working remotely, or you’re alone in the office, or a combination of both. What are you missing? The water cooler meet-ups, the passing by someone's desk, and the chat that starts in the elevator. So how do you start meeting those people that you don't even know that you don't know. Look up who is on another team, department, or division. Select someone and write a note to request a 15 minute chat. Then, choose someone else, and invite them for a 15 minute chat.

When it comes to conversations or meetings with co-workers, there is a common phrase we often hear or say just before hurriedly departing. It is: “Oh…any questions?” There is either silence or a collective “No.” Since no scheduled time was set aside for questions, there is an implication that none are really welcome. Instead, say “WHAT are your questions?” Plus, ask the question long BEFORE others need to rush off to something else. Those tweaks will convey that you know ther