We Need to Talk

When we say: "We need to talk,”

with an emphasis on ‘need’,

we cause fear, dread, AND flight.

The listener expects a one-sided discussion,

and to hear a list of mistakes & errors.

Instead, if we want a conversation,

then engage the person with our words.

Try this: “Let’s grab a coffee and catch up.”

Or try this: “I would love your feedback, so when can we meet?”

Instead of someone dreading the conversation,

the new versions sound like invitations to talk.